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5 Things A Kid Wish to Know from A Great Role Model #What_inspires_kids_to_greatness series

Jakarta, Indonesia.

Last week we were wondering what TRULY GREAT PEOPLE all have in common and the answer was a great role model.

Now, how to encourage our kids to find a great role model for themselves?

Familiar with the adages, “children mirror their parents?” “the fruit doesn’t fall far from the tree?” and so on?

Am sure, some might already guessed the answer by now; BE ONE.

TRULY GREAT PEOPLE mostly answered “mum/dad” to the question “who is your great role model.”  It is usually after a second nudge from interviewers that they would reveal non-parent great role models.  Parents, we are their default role models.

Now, how to live up to that important role?  Such a difficult position to be.  We are not perfect.  Far from it. How can we become someone else’s role model?  Are we ready? On top of it all, we all got to make ends meet etc. etc. etc.

In light of this modern dilemma, I have asked some TRULY GREAT PEOPLE, to share with us their reflections.  Apparently there are common threads across their multitude of answers.  Let’s breathe easier now, because, although these sound hard to teach, they are not impossible to impart. 

Chances are, if you are still reading up to here, you are genuinely looking for ways to inspire our kids more than through material means and that means, you care and you’ll be okay. Hugs!

These are the common things they’ve mentioned so we can reflect further (note that they are not organized in the order of importance):

1. Lead by example. Consistently. Walk the talk.

2. Time management.

3. Substance over flash. Character. Integrity. Empathy. Humility. Sincerity. Wisdom.

4. The art of networking. When, if and how to apologize and mean it.

5. How to keep going when the going gets tough.

Apparently, the journey of inspiring others start with being inspired ourselves and wanting to share what we know/find.  So, let’s continue on this conversation together so we shall find more ideas to inspire our kids to unique greatness.

Meanwhile…

Happy Bonding ;)

Lily Dawis

(To be continued: #What_inspires_kids_to_greatness ? #people / #music / #art / #tech / #food / #culture/ etc. ? Please start following this blog so you don’t miss the journeys!)

*NEWS: We are finally on instagram!!! Please follow @bubblesoflovemusic on a great visual journey featuring curated findings on #what_inspires_kids_to_greatness ;)*

**Lily Dawis is a mother of 3 kids below 8.  Among other official business stuffs, she composes songs, writes children stories, restaurant reviews and simply create. Her first album; Bubbles of Love (www.bubblesoflove.net) is the first and (4 years later) still the only album from Indonesia, by Indonesians, successfully registered in the United States Copyright Office. If you like what you read, please subscribe and kindly share. Thank you for visiting and reading!**

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#What_Inspires_Kids_to_Greatness ? (hint: You’d Be Mighty Glad to Know)

Jakarta, Indonesia.

Isn’t the question as relevant as ever? All parents surely want the best for the kids.  As a result of this “not so secret wish,” most parents spend tons of time and money pondering and trying to ensure kids’ greatness.

Toys, extra classes, gadgets, apps, books, trips. And so on and so forth in a seemingly endless cycle.  Alas, despite spending all those efforts, many kids simply just don’t grow up to be truly great.  Yikes!

But…parents who are still reading up to this point can be assured that their kids would most likely get an advantage over most.

I noticed something that TRULY GREAT PEOPLE that I have the privilege of knowing, ALL HAVE IN COMMON.

They certainly do not have the same parents (except for similarly GREAT siblings of course).

They can’t have played with all the same toys.

As they are from different walks of lives, they surely didn’t all go to similar classes.

Certainly not all share likes for similar gadgets/apps, read similar books nor been to certain destinations.

Startlingly though, they usually have one thing in common.

They all have: a great role model.

(To be continued next week: “5 Things A Kid Wish to Know from A Great Role Model?” please start following this blog so you don’t miss anything!)

*NEWS: We are finally on instagram!!! Please follow @bubblesoflovemusic on a great visual journey featuring curated findings on #what_inspires_kids_to_greatness ;)*

**Lily Dawis is a mother of 3 kids below 8.  Among other official business stuffs, she composes songs, writes children stories, restaurant reviews and simply create. Her first album; Bubbles of Love (www.bubblesoflove.net) is the first and (4 years later) still the only album from Indonesia, by Indonesians, successfully registered in the United States Copyright Office. If you like what you read, please subscribe and kindly share. Thank you for visiting and reading!**

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Yuhuuu! :) How to get more findings?

People, things, art, places, they all provoke questions and sometimes lead to findings…

#What_inspires_kids_to_greatness ;)

We at Bubbles of Love, ask this question everyday!

Hear/Read/View them directly from here (kindly subscribe now, upper right box :D so you don’t miss anything…)

or

Enjoy the great visual journey on @bubblesoflovemusic coz..

Great NEWS: We are finally on instagram!!!

Please follow @bubblesoflovemusic now :D

Either way.. thank you so much for your continuous support. It is the very thing that fuels me to keep on going on to INSPIRE more GREAT KIDS ;)

**Lily Dawis is a mother of 3 kids below 8.  Among other official business stuffs she composes songs, writes children stories, creates activities and crafts that motivate discoveries. Her first album; Bubbles of Love (www.bubblesoflove.net) is the first and (4 years later) still the only album from Indonesia, by Indonesians, successfully registered in the United States Copyright Office. If you like what you read, please subscribe and feel free to share. Thank you for visiting and reading!**

 

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#BackToSchool #AcademicSuccess #OverseasEducation #Scholarships (#Beasiswa)

Jakarta, Indonesia

Wow, it is already the last day of the Lebaran Holiday.

For most kids, tomorrow will be your #BackToSchool day. Hope you and your family’s having fun preparing for tomorrow.

This weekend, I came across a very good read @kompasklass #edukasi that might inspire you and your family in restarting your academic journeys.

It’s about how to earn overseas scholarships.

I myself won a scholarship back in the days when I was in the University of California at Berkeley.  And I got to agree with what the writer of the #kompas piece said.

In essence:

1.  There are super many scholarships out there (for the super smart, for the underprivileged, for the ingenious, for the creative, but mainly; for those who work HARD).

2.  Research (where, what, which, how, DATELINES…thank goodness for google! ;) ).

3.  Prepare, prepare, prepare. Make it relevant!

Get those letters of recommendations (remember, people are busy, allow for a lot of time for them to write you sterling ones, make it easy on them, type up reminders about; who you are, highlights of your relevant academic & business relationships and relevant achievements).

Know what you want, find out the basics, build and complete everything meticulously (don’t let basic errors/clumsiness get in the way of your application; typos, missed deadlines, missing documents etc.).

4. Apply and toughen up.

How do you know that you’re not gonna get a scholarship if you don’t even apply?  If declined, reset, re-research and re-apply.

YOU can do it. Good luck! ;)

Lily Dawis (twitter: @LilyDawis)

*(Inspired by a piece by Ahmad Fuadi, twitter: @fuadil . Am so going to the bookstore to get his book: “Beasiswa 5 Benua: 100 Kiat Merebut Beasiswa Luar Negeri”)

**Lily Dawis is a mother of 3 kids below 8.  Among other official business stuffs she composes songs and writes children stories. Her first album; Bubbles of Love (www.bubblesoflove.net) is the first and (4 years later) still the only album from Indonesia, by Indonesians, successfully registered in the United States Copyright Office. If you like what you read, please subscribe and feel free to share. Thank you for visiting and reading!**

 

 

 

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Family Forgiveness

Dear Bubbles of Love’s supporters,

Today is a very special day.  It marks the end of this year’s major fasting period/Ramadhan month.

This special time, I am very thankful to be surrounded by great solemn energy and love from all around.  I know that families will gather revelling in victory over many things and rejoicing in reunion, forgiveness and togetherness.

Happy Eid Mubarak/Selamat Idul Fitri to those who celebrate.
Minal Aidin Wal Faizin, Mohon Maaf Lahir & Bathin.

#HappyBonding & #Hugs,

Lily Dawis

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Inspirations That Spark Bubbles Of Love Songs (bilingual/dwibahasa)

Inspirations That Spark Bubbles Of Love Songs (bilingual/dwibahasa).

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Inspirations That Spark Bubbles Of Love Songs (bilingual/dwibahasa)

Title of Song: #CloseYourEyes (3/3)

One day, an idea came to me.  Wouldn’t it be comforting for our kids, to know that as they settle into bed, they would still be able to “play” (drawing moon and stars with their little fingers) while listening to our (their parents’) comforting voices set to sounds of a soft musical box lulling them into a wonderful dreamy state?

 

(To be continued with other songs’ inspirations)

**The author is a mother of 3 kids below 8.  She loves composing and writing.  Her first album; Bubbles of Love (www.bubblesoflove.net) is the first and (4 years later) still the only album from Indonesia, by Indonesians, successfully registered in the United States Copyright Office.  Bubbles of Love is well recognized by Indonesian Rolling Stones, Harper’s Bazaar, MetroTv (KickAndy), Bisnis Indonesia, AyahBunda, InspiredKids (and many more) for being dedicated to Inspire Kids to Greatness through Music * Stories * Movements & Crafts.  If you like what you read, please subscribe and feel free to share. Sample our songs at (https://www.cdbaby.com/cd/bubblesoflove). Thank you for visiting and reading!**

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Judul Lagu: #Lelaplah (3/3)

Saya lalu berkhayal betapa tenangnya para balita jika mereka dapat mendengarkan suara kita (sebagai orang-tuanya), lengkap dengan dentingan halus dari kotak musik saatmenhantarkan mereka ke tidur yang lelap setiap harinya.

(Bersambung dengan inspirasi atas lagu-lagu yang lain)

**Penulis adalah Ibu dari 3 orang anak di bawah 8 tahun yang sangat menyukai mengarang lagu dan cerita anak-anak/keluarga.  Album pertamanya: Bubbles of Love (www.bubblesoflove.net) adalah album pertama dan (4 tahun kemudian) masih satu-satunya dari dan oleh Indonesia yang berhasil terdaftar di lembaga HAKI Amerika Serikat, United States Copyright Office!  Bubbles of Love mendapatkan perhatian dari media nasional seperti Harper’s Bazaar, Rolling Stones, MetroTV (KickAndy), Bisnis Indonesia, InspiredKids dan sebagainya karena bertekad membantu anak menemukan kehebatannya melalui Music*Cerita*Gerak & Kerajinan.  Jika Anda menyukai tulisan ini, silahkan follow blog ini dan bantu sebarkan ya.  Samples lagu di https://www.cdbaby.com/cd/bubblesoflove. Terimakasih banyak telah menyempatkan diri untuk browse blog ini dan membaca!!**